Monday, June 22, 2009

money vs love

Throughout my life,i was following a different ideology than 60% people,i have always considered love over money.But i am forced to think differently now.Every person i met ,be it be my family member,my friends they all share the same view,''money is certainly more important,love cant help you throughout your life.you need money to buy every comfort of life".I didnt agree with it in the start but now my thought have also been inclined towards money more.I wanna share some instances,going through them has insitigated my this thinking process.
Till the time i was at my home it was all good with my little dream world.But when i started my b.tech from jald college,i realised in no time that in college you are judged not by your character but by the brand of your clothing.More costlier the brand, more respect u get.well i managed from here without affecting my way of thinking But what i could not avoid my another event.
Back at my home,i saw my uncles(intially known more than brothers) fighting over property matter and alleging each other to be a thief and bane of his life.Then they seprated and started living at opposite ends of city.I felt so grieved.U know wats more painful for me- seeing them living more happily now.
these days from movies and all i got the same impression that money is necessity.one can manage living alone but not without money.I never wanted to think this way but i have started thinking that yes u need money before love.

2 comments:

  1. Hi Shikha,
    The happiness dat u get by loving can never be compared or bought by money!We are not here to just "live"...we are here to love!Dats y we are humans...Money may be a neccessity but love is a mandatory requirement.If u cannot change the world atleast dont change urself.Be the change dat u wish to see!I came by ur profile randomly but i felt i should comment to wat u wrote.tc

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  2. Its been three years that i have not opened my account. i did today and saw your comment...Well my mind is still struggling against this money driven mindset but ya I have certainly realized the value of Love over time..

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